“You're never as good as everyone tells
you when you win, and you're never as bad as they say when you lose.” ― Lou Holtz
She spoke confidently about herself. She
said that she was proud that she could help her parents with the money she
earned. I just asked whether she was a regular student and how could she manage
her studies. She seemed bubbly with a tinge of naughtiness in her eyes, saying
‘I reach home before five in the evening, freshen up and begin teaching my students by 5.30 pm, but I am able to study only during my exams.’ She
added that her mother, who is not very educated had begun helping her and she
and her mother were able to teach students till their seventh grade
examinations. She spoke a lot more, but her love for teaching reflected in her
words and actions.
It was an English oral examination for
the second year undergraduates pursuing computer science. As the students grow
older the objective of a language examination turns into a mere fluency test
where the capabilities of communication and persuasion skills are observed. These
skills are emphasized to help the students land a good job with an ability to
use language for better interpersonal skills. However the syllabus for the
students is a holistic one with prose, poetry, business communication and
grammar. I appreciate the University for making the course compact and simple
for all the students to brush their knowledge and facilitate learning with
ease. The students are a diverse group who belongs to laid back villages, normal
city schools and high bred convent schools. The orals thus would have been more
suited for the second semester after the communication skills, yet it was planned
and I decided to move ahead. I gave the students an idea of the questions that
would be asked from the prose, poetry and grammar. I divided the question
session in three stages for each student and told that everyone would get an
opportunity to speak about themselves for a minute, thus I would come to know
the hundred odd students too.
As the viva began, I saw the students
hustle into the room waiting for their turn. Being science students the crowd
has always been a sincere and a manageable one. Here was a young girl who spoke
about herself. Then came another young girl who spoke about her family, as the
girl spoke there was a quiver in her voice that spoke about her conviction. She
said she wis hed
to do something for her parents. She said ‘ma’am, my mother could not study so
she is helping me study, I wis h
to join a good multinational company
with my knowledge of programming and give her a better life’. She said she
wanted to make her mother lead a rewarding life filled with pride for having
her as a responsible daughter.
The students spoke about their areas of
specialization, their likes in Computer Science like coding, programming,
software engineering and many more. They spoke about their aspirations, their
courage and their abilities. There were some who said that they did not have an
identity in school, they could not land a seat in architecture, or engineering
as planned yet in dejection they had opted for this course, they added that
flexibility of the course had helped them gain a new found confidence and now they looked
forward towards a postgraduation in their favorite subjects. There were a few
who were pursuing engineering from NIIT and doing this course with a retaliation
for learning more and gaining more than the courses they could not pursue.
There were youngsters who worked in call centers and studied the course in
absentia though it was difficult.
I met this young girl for the first
time who said she was also an ex student of one of the schools where I had taught. She spoke about the trauma of losing a
parent, her sister and the financial crunch at home making her teach students.
She said that she intended to pursue her education in all these hardships and
it gave her the understanding that adversities in life have made her stronger
with greater understanding of life. There were students who said they wanted to
give their opinion regarding the poems we had learnt related to culture saying
that they differed in opinion, but wished not to disturb the class the day I
taught. They spoke how a poem like
‘Purdah’ by Imtiaz Dharker was related to their lives and so clarifications
were essential. There were many more who said that they needed to speak to
overcome the fear of speaking a foreign
language.
The viva turned out to be an eye opener
and an understanding how we facilitate learning than teaching. Motivation is an
enthusiasm towards a goal. Motivation has an inner drive and an external
drive. The external drive is associated
with gains like possessions through money, power and position and importance.
An inner drive is the enthusiasm to live in the present, be passionate about
pursuits enjoying these wholely, it includes
love, compassion and a service to others that please the soul. It helped
me understand how an intrinsic motivation viewed through the feelings of our
heart is a long lasting one and can nev er
die out, while the extrinsic motivation of power and position creates a constant
craving and leave an individual dissatisfied with life. Motivation, powerfully reminds
me of my friend Vimala when she told me
that now it would be the turn of multinational companies, all over the world to
come to Ind ia
rather than our kids going abroad, adding that had we had the right
circumstances we would not have become CEOs of companies like Google, but
would have created Google.
“Nothing
in the world is ever completely wrong. Even a stopped clock is right twice a
day.”
― Paulo Coelho
― Paulo Coelho
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